If when the votes are counted you feel betrayed because you were told “Your vote counts!” but it turns out that the election would have gone the same way even if you had stayed home, I understand. If you take “Your vote counts” as really only being true when your vote determines an outcome, then in my lifetime of voting, my vote has never counted. (For a different reading, see the the incredibly smart Peter Norvig’s election FAQ.)
Still, I vote and I hope you do too — even the young, despite some contempt for them). But my reasons have more to do with community than outcomes.
First, voting is a a rite that affirms the most basic and magnificent thing about our country: We believe everyone has an equal voice.
Second, my vote is unlikely to determine an outcome of an election, but it is certain to affect — fractionally, for sure — the total number of people who have voted. And that bears on our sense of the success of our democracy and of our national community. This is not merely information about community, but is information that forms community.
Third, if you don’t vote, you have no right to complain. So, vote or for God’s sake STFU.
As for who to vote for: (a) check my Twitter feed for links to the vids etc. that I find amusing/moving, and (b) really?